As a Black woman myself, I can attest to the fact that no amount of accolades or prestigious degrees can shield you from the daily micro aggressions that we face. Despite being highly educated or having an impressive resume, we still encounter a range of subtle or overt forms of discrimination and biases that can…
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Rediscovering Your Worth: A Guide for Women Feeling Overlooked, Undervalued, and Unfulfilled
Every woman’s journey is unique, yet there are common threads that unite us. Many of us feel overlooked or undervalued, whether in our personal or professional lives. Mothers often grapple with the feeling of sacrificing their dreams for their children, and career-driven women may struggle to find balance and fulfillment. If you find yourself identifying…
Read MoreNourishing Your Body and Mind
By Carlene Cai Randolph It’s no secret that Black woman over 40 are often presented with unique challenges. From balancing work and family life to managing health and wellness, there’s a lot of pressure to stay on top of it all. But the most important thing you can do to stay healthy and well-rounded is…
Read MoreEmbracing the Uniqueness: Raising Grandchildren, Supporting Education, and Meeting the Needs of an Autistic Child
Introduction I am a proud grandmother of three beautiful children. My life took an unexpected turn when my daughter decided to go back to school full time, and I agreed to step in as the primary caregiver for my grandchildren. Although we are an upper-middle-class family, the financial pressures of tuition fees and living expenses…
Read MoreBlack Girl, You Got This: Embracing Your Magic Within
Dear black girl, Are you enough for yourself? It’s a question that can be both daunting and empowering, and one that you should ask yourself often. As a provocative life coach, I have seen many black women who struggle with this question, and I want to tell you that the answer is a resounding yes!…
Read MoreNourishing Your Mind and Body
By Carlene Cai Randolph It’s no secret that Black woman over 40 are often presented with unique challenges. From balancing work and family life to managing health and wellness, there’s a lot of pressure to stay on top of it all. But the most important thing you can do to stay healthy and well-rounded is…
Read MoreThe Joy of Expression – How to Find Your Creative Voice and Use it to Express Yourself
By Carlene Cai Randolph It’s no secret that Black women have always been powerful forces of creativity and expression. From inventors, entrepreneurs, and activists to artists, poets, and musicians, Black women have found ways to share their unique perspectives and experiences through art and words. However, it can be hard to find the confidence and…
Read MoreAre You a Doormat?
By Carlene Cai Randolph Are you the person who finds themselves constantly saying “yes” to everyone else’s requests and sacrificing their own needs in the process? If you’re feeling like you’ve become a doormat, it’s time to step back and ask yourself why this is happening. If you’re like many overwhelmed 40 year old women…
Read MoreThe Power of Speaking Up: Why Black Women Must Advocate for Themselves in Love Relationships
By Carlene Cai Randolph As a society, we often see women of color being portrayed as overly emotional, angry, and aggressive. This stereotype has led to a general perception that black women are not capable of speaking up in love relationships and expressing their thoughts and feelings effectively. However, this couldn’t be further from the…
Read MoreFacing our struggles to find deeper meaning: A reflection on love and relationships
My faith has been tested at times, but I never lost sight of the Father’s boundless love. Sometimes, facing our struggles and examining our beliefs can be difficult, but ultimately it is worth the effort. For example, if you regret letting go of a relationship and vow to avoid future connections, you may find yourself…
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