Many people believe that there is someone special out there for each of us, but how do you find that soulmate? While the process may seem daunting, there are some things you can do to speed it up and help Cupid’s work along. Consider these simple strategies:
- Open Your Heart and Be Observant
People often get so caught up in their day-to-day lives that they’re too busy to notice who’s around them. When you become more aware of your surroundings, you’ll be more likely to meet new people. This seems so simple, yet in today’s world, being kind to strangers is often seen as strange. Offering a smile or holding the door for someone can go a long way. Being nice will attract others to you, especially that very special soulmate.
- Have An Open Mind and Be Patient
Forget about placing people into certain categories and certainly forget about having a “type.” When you consider that anyone might be your type, your chances of finding your soulmate have opened up tremendously. Even though you might be able to speed up the process, it won’t happen in an instant. Don’t assume everyone you meet is the soulmate you’re searching for. Trust that you’ll find them when the time is right, and then you will.
- Listen To Your Heart, Be Yourself, and Think Positively
Your heart will steer you in the right direction. Just listen. If you’re seeing someone but don’t feel the life-long pull that you should, gently break off the relationship. On the other hand, if you feel someone might be your soulmate, ask him or her out, even if you’re not used to being so forward.
When people are looking for love, they’ll often wear more revealing clothes or do other things they wouldn’t usually do. Although this may attract some people, ask yourself if that’s the kind of person you want to attract in the first place. Your best bet? Just be you.
Something as simple as a genuine smile will let people know that you’re happy, confident, and ready for love. No one really likes to hang around a “Debbie Downer.” Instead, carry a positive attitude with you, and you’re sure to attract other positive, like-minded people.
- Improve Yourself and Visualize It
When you focus on developing your own skills, talents, and confidence, you’ll actually be drawing your soulmate to you. And when they find you, you’ll be at your best. Besides, your soulmate just might be teaching the class you signed up for.
Believe that you are worthy of love and that you will find your soulmate. After all, a strength of purpose can make dreams come to life. Visualizing the life you will have with your soulmate once you’ve found him or her. Imagine what your home will look like and where you’ll go on vacation. Visualizing it will make it seem more real and will increase the probability of it happening.
- Listen To Your Intuition and Be Approachable
When you meet someone, your inner voice may tell you whether or not this could be “the one.” Don’t ignore that voice either way. Work on becoming more approachable. Greet people kindly, be generous, and put yourself on the same level as others. If people feel like they can’t approach you, they won’t.
Wearing peach, pink, or red can show that you’re open to love. Women might feel more comfortable in peaches and pinks than men, but men can wear reds.
- Be Aware Of Your Body Language and Become The Center Of Attention
There are countless ways to communicate through your body. Ensure you’re using positive
body language that attracts people instead of putting them off. Build up the courage to put yourself at the center stage sometimes. Not only will this get you noticed, but it’ll also show that you’re confident and fun.
- Never Act Desperate and Don’t Bend On What’s Really Important To You
Desperation is a turn-off for most people. Even if you feel desperate, don’t let it show. Let your friends and family know you’re looking for that special someone, but do it subtly and with finesse. You shouldn’t compromise on what’s most important to you, specifically your core beliefs, values, and morals. This is why it’s so important to know and love yourself first!
- Keep Your Spirits Up and Stop Looking
Sometimes we get so wrapped up in trying to find a lasting relationship that it becomes the focus of our lives. If you’ve been looking for a while and still haven’t found someone, take it easy for a while. You just might be pleasantly surprised when you let fate take over! Be encouraged and know that your soulmate is out there. You’ll find them, even if it takes longer than you’d like.
By being open to love, loving life, and following these simple strategies, you can find a loving and lasting relationship. Remember that your soulmate is out there, and they’re just as eager to meet you as you are to meet them.
References:
- “7 Steps To Attracting Your Dream Partner” by Esther Perel, Thrive Global, https://thriveglobal.com/stories/7-steps-to-attracting-your-dream-partner/
- “How to Find Your Soulmate (The Right Way)” by Jayson Gaddis, Thrive Global, https://thriveglobal.com/stories/how-to-find-your-soulmate-the-right-way/
- “7 Ways to Manifest Your Ideal Relationship” by Gabrielle Bernstein, Thrive Global, https://thriveglobal.com/stories/7-ways-to-manifest-your-ideal-relationship/
Coach Cai 